"Bottoms make the world go around. Without men willing to take dick, we would be a lost cause. Bottoms have a special place in my heart and in the heart of many; whether you consider yourself a top or you are versatile or every now and then dig in some guts, bottoms lives matter! Still, there are constant reminders around being a bottom that lends to the insinuation of it being a bad thing," writes Ian Haddock. "Things like: .... He ain't nothing but a dirty ass bottom. OR... I always knew he was a bottom. Even though it takes a lot more work, a lot more preparation and a lot more strength, we treat bottoms-- in a lot of ways-- the same way heterosexual men treat women." READ MORE